I know the exact moment it happened.

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I know the exact moment it happened.

We were in bed together, so connected and in flow, and then suddenly something felt off. I felt him go into his head — I knew he was thinking about his erection. I could feel it happening.

Instead of naming it, I kept going.

This seemingly small disconnection is in reality, huge.

I was surprised, and not surprised, in the next moment when I watched him reposition himself to move on top of me to penetrate.

We went from slow connected hot sexy flow to awkward and goal-oriented.

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Brenda Fredericks

Coach & Writer. Musings on being a woman, creator of Body Love, alchemist, mother, brendafredericks.com

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