Hi Steve, you make assumptions that I don't have experience with these issues. That is the whole point of the article that we don't get to cherry pick - we either believe people are sovereign or we don't. Now, that does not make it easy. Dear Lord I think it is the HARDEST thing ever to watch people we love make choices we don't agree with. But that is when we need to look at our own relationship to control and surrender. Lest we put our will on someone and who are we to do that. I am not suggesting we keep quiet with people we love, either. But there is a way to have conversations AND stay in our own hula hoop. I talk about that in my article The Feminine is the Medicine. Thank you for reading.