Your Now’s Create Your Life

Brenda Fredericks
2 min readSep 15, 2022
solo adventure beach selfie

I felt the call for a solo adventure and took myself to the beach for a few days.

I remembered how much I love to go out on my own, have no plan, choose the unknown path and see what magic comes to me.

Inside of that bigger choice to take a mini get away, I have been choosing small things differently too.

If we want things to be different in our life, we need to choose differently.

We can be blind to ourselves at times and it can be tricky to notice the spots were we believe there is one way to do something.

I don’t know about you, but I can easily be a creature of habit.

Or we can get stuck in our preferences.

So I have been noticing this lately.

Where can I say Yes where I would normally say No? Or vice versa?

Where do I believe there’s one way to do something, or one path to take?

Where is there a desire popping up that seems inconvenient or impossible?

Yesterday while walking to the beach, I found a chair. Like, a regular old metal kitchen chair just sitting on the sand. So strange.

That chair certainly took a different path.

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Brenda Fredericks

Musings on being a Woman and a Mother on a Spiritual Journey. In service to Truth and Joy. Cohost: Desire as Medicine Podcast. https://www.brendafredericks.com